Lovely Loretta

Jan 26 2012

You know what I find terribly ironic? That girls argue that men shouldn’t get a say in abortion because it’s “their” body, while at the same time, every minute a girl is allowing herself to be pressured into having sex.

krokodile:

and you know what i find terribly gross?  that people think like this. yes, personal responsibility is important, but so is telling someone that someone pressuring them is *their fault.*


another assclown giving catholics a bad name.  diaf.

I am not saying that being pressured is the person’s fault. If a woman wants to walk out into the street with just her underwear on, she should be able to without anyone thinking anything about her.

If a woman goes out with her boyfriend of a year and comes home and he tries to give her all of the reasons why she should sleep with him, he’s scum an she doesn’t deserve that. But if she gives in (given a situation when she doesn’t feel ready) then yes, as an intelligent, thinking human being, she is responsible for not just putting her foot down and leaving, if she has to. And you and I both know that this happens severely more often than it should.

I don’t understand why the name calling is necessary. I find that to be particularly gross myself, especially since you were taking what I said to be something different and jumping to conclusions.

(Source: lovelyloretta)

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    I am not saying that being pressured is the person’s fault. If a woman wants to walk out into the street with just her...
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    and you know what i find terribly gross? that people think like this. yes, personal responsibility is important, but so...
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    Do you still not see the problematic nature of what you wrote No one lets themselves be pressured, they are pressured...
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