boom.: You know what I find terribly ironic? That girls argue that men shouldn't get a say in abortion because it's "their"...
Above/Title is by OP [lovelyloretta], below/post is reply by me [indigocrayon]:
You know what I find terribly gross?
That you think being pressured into something is something that people allow to happen to themselves. That you care so little about women that you want to shame them for being …
Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
Hold on. I meant nothing about women who are raped. My post was not at ALL targeted toward women who are raped. Oh my goodness, girl.
I also was not talking at all about women who are consenting to sex.
I was merely pointing out the irony that there are so many women who don’t want to have sex but do anyway, because they’re afraid that the guy they’re with will break up with them, or that they’ll never get married, etc. etc. As a 19-year-old virgin who is waiting until she’s married to have sex, I’ve heard plenty of, “Yeah, good luck finding a guy who will put up with that,” and things along that line.
And I know many, many, many girls who aren’t even planning on waiting until they’re married, but simply don’t feel ready yet to have sex, but give into the pressure because they’re afraid of losing the guy they’re with.
I just find it sad that this happens so often, yet these are the same people who say a man doesn’t get the right to have any opinion on abortion because it’s not their body. That’s all.
(Source: lovelyloretta)
